My name is Jim Tolles, and I have been teaching people the path out of suffering since 2010.
Go within.
It’s one of the first ways I’ve described this work, and it is still relevant.
Go within to understand your ego and your body impulses that define your very perception and which lock you into the same repetitive thought, emotion, and behavior loops.
Undoing identification with those loops is powerful.
But so too is this transformational work, and it doesn’t go the way your ego thinks. That’s why having a teacher is critical instead of spinning around in the dead-end loops of your ego, the Internet, and the latest AI gobbledy-gook.
AI Spiritual Awakening: What Is Real?
Step 1: Surrender
The student must accept the reality they’re in.
That’s everything.
For my part, I surrender as well; I accept the student as they are.
However, most students want to be some place that they are not.
This impedes the work. Nothing more is done until the student accepts the reality they’re in.
If you’re in Minnesota, but say that you’re in France, how can I give you the right directions to Hawaii?
Except you want to go to Florida, and not Hawaii.
People are that confused.
For a more down-to-earth example, here are four realities that are often ignored, suppressed, and denied:
- Health problems
- Bad relationships
- Bad jobs
- Trauma of every kind imaginable
When reality is accepted, things can change.
Along the way, I teach foundational tools like coming back to awareness. But none of that is particularly useful until it’s clear where the student is.
Step 2: Meeting You Where You Are
Once I know what your reality is, then certain transformational tools become obvious and appropriate.
I can meet you in Minnesota and cancel my trip to France. 🙂
If I know your leg is broken, I understand that we need tools to set the broken leg.
If you are overweight, then we talk about nutrition, exercise, and emotional eating.
This work is that practical.
Invariably in these very mundane things, the ego rises up and objects to the nutrition, exercise, et al.
Here is where the work is–facing the ego’s resistance to reality.
Step 3: Do What Is Needed Now
What is needed now is what is meaningful.
For one person, they need to have a hard conversation with a spouse.
For another, they need to learn how to lose a verbal battle instead of constantly fighting everyone.
For yet another, like the earlier example, they need to fix their nutrition.
The things your ego wants to do are almost never where you need to go.
Again and again, I help students see what is meaningful and to focus on that.
I also help students do these steps incrementally–small steps that build up over time. I help students to learn about the power of failure in trial and error.
Things open up fast when the student addresses what is needed.
Step 4: Repeat Steps 1 to 3
This methodology is a cycle.
As someone does the first three steps, their sense of perspective expands. They see more about themselves.
They feel more empowered and at peace with themselves. They begin to see the next step. Then they have to surrender to that, meet the issue on the issue’s terms, and do what is needed now.
The less resistance they have, the more deeply and quickly we go. This unlocks more realizations.
Finally, here’s a big difference in someone who is awakening versus all the other realizations people have:
Someone who wakes up sees more of themselves, their ego attachments, their projections, and their traumas as the case may be. Their world expands.
For so many others having realizations, their world shrinks as they see more of life’s problems, or they try to put on rose-colored glasses to make beautiful terrible things.
What Is a Spiritual Awakening?
Simple Isn’t Easy
This methodology is simple.
But 99% of spiritual seekers are bypassers and escapists.
They avoid surrendering to their reality, trying to come up with every reason that they are in a different space or understanding than they are. They seek soothing and medicating spiritual tools.
Those tools never last long before the suffering returns.
Honesty is at the heart of this work. Those who are honest and sincere continue to surrender and do what is needed now.
Eventually, it sinks in that they are free of their ego–they never have to do what the ego says. They always have options. That’s what it means to realize freedom/enlightenment.
If you are ready to be honest and to surrender, I am here to help you realize your freedom.
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